So when it rains,it pours. I have had one date in the last year, and now I have three in one
weekend! Apparently getting brutally honest in my dating profile about what I’m looking for and what I won’t tolerate was just the trick to attract some potentially good matches.
Date #1: Friday Afternoon Cocktails
I met Ken at a waterfront bar and restaurant. It was blazing hot outside, absolutely sweltering. I had just come from a business meeting and had on a dress. (A dress made out of a non-breathable fabric that had my ass sticking to the leather seats in my car thanks to profuse sweating.) I cleaned up pretty good for this one, and felt pretty good about my overall appearance.
His pictures had not been very clear on Match. They were all kind of distant shots of him so it was hard to tell what he really looked like. YES he was very nice looking in person! I was pleasantly surprised.
We sat and talked over beers and an appetizer for almost two hours. The conversation flowed, we had a lot in common, especially in our love for the beach. We laughed a lot.
He has been married twice, and has no kids. Has all the things on “The List,” with one technical problem. He still lives with his ex-girlfriend. Apparently she has two small daughters and he felt obliged to let them live there so they can finish out this next school year. He volunteered this information up front and was very candid about it. He said they just live under the same roof but otherwise do not have a romantic relationship. I think that’s a little odd and might bother me if we move forward. I guess I’ll just have to wait and see about that one.
When we finished our beers we went walking on the waterfront. He held my hand and we had a nice chat strolling along the docks. Then we both agreed it was entirely too hot to be out there so he walked me back to my car and we parted company.
A little while later I got this note from him:
Thank you for meeting me. You are engaging, attractive, and intelligent. I hope I can see you again. I stopped by <bar name omitted> to watch the storm come in. Looking out over the river as the lightning flashes, thunder and cool breeze roll over the deck. Thinking of you.
This one shows some real promise! I have dates two and three later today, one for lunch, one for dinner. I’ll be back with a report about those!