A gal from my office is getting married, and two of us offered to throw her a bridal shower. I wanted to show you what we’re doing! As with all my events, I started the planning with a Pinterest board. You can see it by clicking here.
Format and Theme
We decided on a Friday afternoon, happy hour time just after work ends. That way people can stop by on their way home and have a drink, unwind, and celebrat
e her upcoming nuptials. I have that day off so I can work on preparing everything during the day, and, my son’s girlfriend is available to help me since she also doesn’t work or have class that day.
Our theme is a lingerie shower. I personally wouldn’t want one of those, because I’m not a lingerie person, but she seems to be loving the idea and this is all about her!
We chose pink and white for two reasons. One, pink is her accent color in her wedding. Two, it’s Valentine’s day and the stores are FILLED with pink and white stuff that’s cute and romantic and affordable!
Since we are not trying to feed people lunch or dinner, we decided on three sweet and four savory bites for the event:
Sweet: fruit kabobs, chocolate covered pretzel rods, and cake (hopefully in the shape of a penis if we can find someone to bake it for us. My co-host owns the penis pan. I didn’t ask her why. Haha!).
Savory: deviled eggs, tomato and cheese crostini, finger sandwiches, and nuts.
The sweet items–I chose fruit kabobs because I own a BUNCH of packages of skewers and it just made sense to put them to good use. Plus everyone at this event is over 40 and probably watching their carbs so fruit is a good choice.
The pretzel rods I saw on Pinterest
were just too cute. I went to Michael’s last week and for Valentine’s day they had all the candy melts and candy decorations on sale plus I had a coupon for an additional 20% off. So, I got the candy melts and little sugar pearls for about $6 total. I can make the white chocolate a nice pink color with a dab of gel food coloring.
The tomato and whipped feta cheese crostini is another favorite from a previous party. It’s a Barefoot Contessa recipe that is always a huge hit. Plus it’s something you can serve “deconstructed”–put the cheese mixture in a dish, then put the tomato and pine nut mixture in another dish, and serve that alongside a platter of toasted bread slices. People can make their own (which also has the advantage of not getting soggy in advance).
Finger sandwiches in the shape of hearts. Who doesn’t love heart shaped stuff at a bridal shower??? My co-host is making those, not sure what she will put in them but I’m sure whatever she chooses will be great.
And, finally, we’ll have some nuts of some sort for an easy, high-protein munchy.
We are going to serve a pink alcoholic punch that I love to make. The recipe is from Giada DeLaurentis and it is absolutely lovely both in color and in flavor. The recipe is super simple and it’s always a crowd pleaser.
I love those tissue paper pom poms that are so popular! So I went to www.papermart.com to buy tissue paper to make them, and I found that they sell ready-made pom poms for about $1 to $1.50 apiece. What a deal, and no trying to figure out how to make them myself! I ordered pink and white ones in a range of sizes.
Also from Papermart, I ordered some rolls of pink tulle to tie on the chairs in my dining room. I think that looks so festive, and their rolls of tulle are super inexpensive!
I have pink and white paper straws, which will go great with the pink punch! I love this idea I found on Pinterest of tying a little slash of ribbon to each straw. Definitely going to do that.
As with all my events, I went to Dollar Tree and stocked up on disposable platters, bowls, etc. They have plastic ones that look like cut crystal, and silver ones that look like metal. They even have some metal trays that are only $1.00 and very elegant looking.
I also grabbed tons of heart shaped doilies since the stores are full of those around Valentine’s day!
I have some pink and white silk gerbera daisies in my craft stash. I’m planning on putting those in vases and jars, for a touch of feminine color.
You fill a condom with gum balls or other candies that you can count, and then the game is for everyone to guess how many candies are in there. Then, for additional fun, you can gather all the guests in a circle, then have them pass the condom from person to person using only their knees, and no hands. This sounds like fun after everyone has a few glasses of that alcoholic punch!
Other than that, I think the entertainment will consist of watching the bride open her gifts, and, sharing good conversation.
I took lots of pictures of the actual event to share. Click here to see them.